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Disorientation and the inability to make
decisions make our life difficult. Some Christians do not know what God
has called them to do specifically with their lives. The same applies to
many churches. We often live like Alice in Wonderland …
| "Could you
please tell me how to continue on my way from here?", asks Alice.
"It depends on where you want to go", says the cat. "It doesn't
matter to me where I'm going.", says Alice. "So it doesn't matter
how you continue on your way", says the cat. (from: Lewis Carrol,
Alice in Wonderland) |
In churches it may look like this: "I could
imagine working in other areas of the church, for example in the theatre
team for our church service", complained Martina. "But on the other hand,
I have too much to do already. I like everything I do, but it is getting
too much for me. I can't decide what to do and what not to do. It's so
complicated."
"For the next year we
have planned the following", a pastor of a village church said proudly to
me. "One week of crusade, two church retreats, four marriage preparation
seminars for engaged people, various trainings for our co-workers, a
prayer seminar and the participation in the next Promise Keeper meeting.
Furthermore, we want to build up a counselling ministry in this region
with other churches. And surely, it is an affair of honour to participate
in the regular interdenominational activities." He looked expectantly at
me, probably hoping I would express my admiration. In a neutral manner I
asked him about the strategy behind all these activities. "Ah, strategies.
We already tried many of them. It's just too complicated. I prefer a
pragmatic approach: The essential thing is that something happens!"
Enemy No. 1: Lack of Orientation
Unfortunately, not knowing where we want to
go is not as nice and harmless as with Alice in Wonderland. While she
seems quite relaxed in not knowing where she's going, an absence of
strategy leaves many of us either hyperactive or paralyzed – it depends on
the personality. Even worse, we may fail to see that neither of these
alternatives offer the real solutions we seek. In fact, lack of
orientation is the enemy number one of a simpler yet more fulfilling life
in ministry.
Hyperactivity: The most important thing
is that something happens
Mark Twain wrote: "When we had completely
lost sight of our goal, we doubled our efforts." The lack of orientation
often leads to simply doing more, taking on more tasks and programs. Many
Christians who lose orientation just do more, seldom stopping to consider
if they are on the right track. They become driven by tasks and programs,
ending up stressed and agitated. Lacking criteria to help them decide
whether to do something or not, they simply try to do everything. At some
point they reach burnout and are often lost as active members of the
church.
If we want to live a simpler yet more
productive life in ministry, we must recognize this trap and find out
God's commission for our life: for our participation in the church, for
our small group, for our church. Being paralyzed: I cannot decide
| A soldier was wounded in the
head in war and became disoriented. He couldn't work out which side
he was on. He racked his brains for several days, but his memory
failed him. Finally he dressed himself with the trousers of one army
and the jacket of the other. As a consequence he was shot at by both
sides. |
Lack of orientation does not always lead to hyperactivity. Some
people react by becoming passive, unable to decide what to do. Right or
left, this task or that, possibility 1 or 2 -- a problem without solution.
It all seems so complicated. Years can pass without resolving where to get
involved.
But all could be so much easier if people could get a foothold on
recognizing God's will for their life -- a strong sense of spiritual
orientation to life.
Success: Recognizing and doing God's will
The church consultant Robert Logan once
defined "success" from a Christian point of view. "Success means: To
recognize the will of God and do it." Orientation is the key to such
success! The people who know where they are, where they want to go and how
to get there have a distinct advantage over those who have no orientation.
What's easier? To reside in a city with a map of the city at hand or to
visit the city as tourist for the first time? Is it more stressful for the
old lady trying to buy her meat in the new supermarket or her neighbour
who buys his meat at the butcher's on the corner? Who finds it easier to
walk around - the blindfolded child or her friends scampering around her?
Orientation makes life easier!
What is right in everyday life is surely
right in the life of the church. In my church, we have regular "courses of
introduction" for people who are interested in becoming members. Over two
evenings participants receive information about our church, becoming
"oriented" about what we offer, our structure, our values, our
fundamentals of faith, and so on. During two further evenings we help them
both discover their spiritual gifts and find their place in the church.
This process of orientation makes it much easier for them to decide
whether our church is right for them (which in turn makes life easier for
us as well). Normally they stay because the process helps them find their
place.
As part of our ACTS Training Center program for co-workers,
leaders and church planters, I offer a course to help participants put in
words their "call", their "vision", their "motto of life" or – as we call
it – their "Mission Statement". Regularly participants experience this
course as the climax of a whole year of training. A student said: "Now I
know where to go! Many decisions are much easier to make now I have
formulated my 'Mission Statement'. I now know the general direction I am
going in. Knowing this has made the whole year worthwhile."
What is a "Mission Statement"?
In Sirach 3:22 we read: "Reflect upon what
you have been commanded, for what is hidden is not your concern." If we
want to stay oriented, we need a guiding principle that we can always keep
in front of us, a motto of life which always reminds us what God is
commanding us to do. This declaration about God's commission for a person
is also called "Mission Statement", where "mission" is used in the
original sense of "commission". Different research shows that Christians
who make an effort to discover God's commission for their life and who put
this commission into words as a "Mission Statement" are more likely to
reach their life's goals than those who don't.
Often, such a guiding principle can be condensed into one
succinct sentence, which can then reflect the commission of a single
person, a group, a church or even an entire organisation. The missions
organisation "Youth with a Mission" defines its commission in this way:
"To know God and to make him known". My personal motto of life is: "More
and better churches". Such a declaration helps retain orientation in
everyday situations that demand decisions. And it also helps to live a
life in accord with God's commission. Many things become simpler, if you
have such a motto and use it like a compass in life: it keeps you heading
in the right direction.
Not long ago, a leader of a big secular publishing house offered
me the role of editor-in-chief of his new magazine project. I have to
admit the offer flattered me and was tempting. But my life-motto clearly
showed me that the job had nothing to do with God's commission for my
life. So, I called him and declined his offer. Why? "For what is hidden is
not your concern." Of course I used different words to him, but without
having known God's commission for my life, the decision would have been
much more difficult. Perhaps I may have even made the wrong decision.
The view behind the scene
"To work out a 'Mission Statement' is in
fact the most important single task, because this decision does affect all
other decisions." (Stephen Covey, author of the book: "The seven habits of
highly effective people")
Having a life-motto makes many things
easier. But it takes a lot of work to formulate one. Actually, working on
a "Mission Statement" never ends: A "Mission Statement" is merely a
written statement about my present understanding of God's call. It is not
identical with God's call. It is dynamic and can change over time – not
because God's call changes, but because my (preliminary and fragmentary)
comprehension of that call changes.
To be correct, a "Mission Statement" is
something more than just the single sentence of a life-motto. It is more
detailed, can contain several paragraphs and gives an answer to three
questions:
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What has God shown me about my life through the Bible?
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Which values has God formed in my life? |
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What is my vision for life? |
Answering these questions helps build a foundation for
formulating a motto in the form of a slogan. My complete "Mission
Statement" is as follows:
| "On the foundation of a close relation to Jesus I want to be
available for God with my whole life, so that the gifts which he has
given me will bring fruit.
My life shall accomplish a distinct contribution to both the
planting of new churches and the healthy development of existing
churches; the influence of this contribution shall go beyond
Germany. At the same time I want to be strongly rooted in a local
church.
To accomplish this commission well, I want my whole life to be
growing to maturity, to multiply myself and my ministry, and to put
the needs of the people around me above my own needs."
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Maybe you noticed: In the first section I worked up the insights
of God's Word which became important to me. The second section is about my
life vision. The third section mentions the values which shall give me
orientation when realizing this vision. And strictly speaking, each
section is only the short version of an even more detailed version. Later
on, we will speak more about it, when you will formulate your own "Mission
Statement".
"Mission Statements" for Churches
Do you remember the pastor of the village church at the beginning
of this chapter? He planned actions and actions without having a strategy.
"The main thing is that something happens", he argued. As long as his
co-workers participate in these activities, probably no one will recognize
the absence of clarity about deciding what really matters. The work
continues without guiding principles or overall orientation. If this
church had a "Mission Statement", they could bundle their actions and have
clear direction.
Churches who are "successful" in the sense defined above, put
their "Mission Statement" above all strategies, structures, goals,
programmes and actions. Once God's commission for a church is recognized
and formulated, everything else can be deduced.
Examples of "Mission Statements"
The Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington,
Chicago formulates its "Mission Statement" as follows: "The mission of
Willow Creek Community Church is to turn irreligious people into fully
devoted followers of Jesus Christ." As consequence of this they formulated
a "7-step-strategy", which describes in a detailed manner how they will
realize this call.
The Andreas Gemeinde, a Lutheran church in Niederhöchstadt,
Germany brings its commission to the point in the following way: "The goal
of our church is to help people get to know God and love him with all
their heart, help them live in community with other Christians and grow
them in faith, and – following the example of Jesus – empower them to
serve others." There are five elements in this formulation – "to get to
know God", "to live in community", "to grow them in faith", "to serve
others" and "to love God with all of your heart".
The ACTS Training Center mission statement reads as follows:
"More and better churches by more and better leaders by more and better
disciples of Jesus." Its commission is to be the engine for the planting
of new churches and the healthy development of existing churches. It has a
three-step strategy: start with discipleship training, that turns people
in devoted followers of Jesus. Out of this group of "disciples" persons
with the appropriate gifts and callings are trained to be leaders. Then
they specialize to become church planters, pastors or church consultants.
To be sure, not all values and guidelines characterizing ACTS are included
in our "Mission Statement". For example, it does not tell you that our
training is skill-based and involves coaching; we have a detailed syllabus
based on the "Mission Statement" to cover these things. But it is clear
enough: If somebody comes to us to receive a theological education, we
say: "Sorry, but this is not our calling. We can help you become a better
disciple of Jesus. We can train you to become a leader or church planter.
If you look for theological knowledge, however, you need to go somewhere
else – to a school or training center with that calling."
You see, a "Mission Statement" gives you orientation – and
therefore makes decisions about how to live a full life as a Christian
much easier.
Your Thoughts:
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Do you tend to be hyperactive? Or do you feel paralyzed? If
yes: What could be the causes? Lack of orientation? |
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Do you have a personal life-motto? If yes: What is it? |
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Does your group/church has a mission statement? If yes:
What is it? |
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This chapter was
taken and translated from Leichter leben lernen (The Keys to
a simpler and more fulfilling life) by Christoph Schalk. Leichter
leben lernen is available in German only from CoachNet D.A.CH.
Copyright 2003: Christoph Schalk, C&P Publishing, used by
permission.
[Another chapter will follow
in December:
How you
draw up your own mission statement ... ] |
Christoph Schalk lives in Germany and directs the international
consultant network of the Institute for Natural Church Development. |